Bell Let’s Talk Day

Hey Everyone,

So I want to talk about something that a lot of people don’t talk about: Mental Health. I personally have some mental health diagnosis including anxiety but there are some others. I also know a lot of people who also live with mental health. First it is not even close to something that is easy to live with and it is considered taboo to talk about which makes it that much harder to live with. People are afraid to express the things that are going on in fear of the repercussions that come with it. I was fortunate to grow up with a mother who is very supportive and has made herself approachable with topics such as mental health and I am forever grateful for that, however not everyone has that in their lives.

In fact many people live in an environment where mental health is seen as having something wrong with you, something you don’t talk about. This is one of the many reasons Bell Let’s Talk Day is a good thing. It promotes talking about mental health and taking away the stigma that is attached to it. I really hope that we can achieve this and make it so that many other people are willing to talk and find the support that they need. My wish is that we some day live in a world where talking about mental health is no longer taboo, where seeking support is easy. A place where everyone can be accepted whether they live with mental health or not.

However of course with the good also comes the bad as with every situation so here it comes. Having one day where people are showing their support isn’t enough. Having one day where people say “I stand with you regardless of mental health” is not enough. This needs to happen each and every day. Furthermore there are those people who will support Bell Let’s Talk Day and then turn around and make mental health taboo. People who will be the first to tell you there is something wrong with you because you suffer from mental health but will also be the first to #bellletstalk . This is the kind of thing that needs to change. If you stand with people living with mental health you have to do it year round, not just one day.

Living with mental health is not an easy thing to do. Nor will it ever be 100% easy but with the correct support and no stigma attached it can be easier. Let’s all do our part in making the world a place where everyone is accepted no matter what. Sometimes it’s as easy as listening to someone needing to talk, sometimes it must go deeper. Regardless on how it happens the important thing is that it happens. “Alone we are all unique but together we create a masterpiece.” -source not known

Talk Soon,

Lyndzey

30 Day Blogging Challenge: Day 28-30

Day 28: Post five things that make you laugh out loud

  1. A well thought out pun
  2. When the kids at work say something that is pure gold
  3. The pterodactyl joke
  4. Some inside jokes that I have with friends
  5. When Logan is very uncoordinated which is often

Day 29: What are your goals for the next 30 days?

I want to keep blogging and keep up with my YouTube channel. I also want to try something new at least twice in the next month and join a gym.

Day 30: Your highs and lows this month.

Honestly there are way too many to put into a blog post since I’ve had so many ups and downs over the month. It seemed to be a roller coaster this month.

30 Day Blogging Challenge: Day 23 – 27

Day 23: A letter to someone, anyone

Grandma,

I miss you more than I can put into words. Each and every day I think about you and I hate that you aren’t here anymore. I thought it would get easier with time but it hasn’t and it sucks. I hate not having you to be able to just call on my way home from work like I used to. I hate not being able to drive to see you for dinner before driving the hour home so that I wouldn’t miss work in the morning. I hate not being able to tell you everything.

It isn’t fair that you were taken from us. There are so many bad people in the world and yet you were the one taken. I think about you all the time and miss you even more often. I love you so much and I am going to keep living my life trying to make sure you would be proud of me. You mean so much to me and I will never stop loving you.

Till we meet again,

Lyndsay

Day 24: Write about a lesson you learned the hard way

I have learned a lot of lessons the hard way but the one that comes to mind is not to trust everyone. Sure there are some people in the world that can be trusted but there are also a lot of people who shouldn’t be trusted. I used to trust a lot more easily than I do now even when I had a bad feeling about something but now I know to follow my gut when it’s telling me not to trust.

Day 25: Think of any word and search it on Google images. Write something inspired by the 11th image

Word: Believe

Dreams are a strange but wonderful thing, they come in two rather abstract concepts. Let’s begin with the one most people think about when someone says dream, the ones that happen when you are sleeping. Such a concept to think that our minds can create these images while we are asleep. When all other functions are put on pause we still see those images and they create something we might not understand. Though dreams are our subconscious trying to convey something we want or something we are afraid of happening.

So why is it that the second type of dream is where we set a goal we wish to achieve? Well it is because we are aiming for something that we want and while there may be fears holding us back that goal is still present. I believe that in a way the two concepts intertwine with each other and although we may not know it they each shape the other. Follow your dreams, both kinds and reach for the stars.

Day 26: Write and area in your life that you’d like to improve

This was by far the easiest one for me to do… I want to improve the way I see myself. I want to be able to love myself. I have been through a lot and come out stronger but I still have many many moments where I hate myself and I hate the way I look. I’m working each and every day on loving myself and accepting myself for everything I’ve been through and all the scars that I carry but it is still a difficult road.

Day 27: Write about something that’s kicking ass right now

Last night I went to my first paint night and I think it kicked ass. I loved it and I’ve signed up for the next one. I also have my bullet journal going and it’s allowing me that creative outlet. I believe the creative parts of my life are kicking ass!

30 Day Blogging Challenge: Day 21 and 22

Day 21: What are three lessons do you want your children to learn from you?

When I have children there are many lessons I want them to learn from me but the three most important ones I want them to learn are;

  1. Don’t let anyone get you down. You don’t need to impress anyone but yourself so always do what you strive to do regardless on if people believe you can do it or not.
  2. Not everything is going to be fair. Life isn’t fair but that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy it. Things are going to happen that bring you down, things you are going to wonder why they are happening to you. But you will be able to get through it if you keep your head up high and keep moving forward
  3. Hard work goes a long way. You can be anyone you want to be and achieve anything you want to achieve as long as you work hard. Don’t give up on your dreams and work to get to your end goal

Day 22: Put your music on shuffle and post the first 10 songs

  1. Complicated; Avril Lavigne
  2. We Come Running; Youngblood Hawks
  3. Riddin’; Chamillionaire
  4. In Da Club; 50 Cent
  5. Dynamite; Taio Cruz
  6. Thunder; Imagine Dragons
  7. Good Life; G-Easy
  8. Havana; Camila Cabello
  9. Cheap Thrills; Pitch Perfect 3 Soundtrack
  10. Just Hold On; Steve Aoki

Talk Soon,

Lyndzey

30 Day Blogging Challenge: Day 19 and 20

Day 19: Discuss your first love

It was the summer before high school started that I met him and instantly fell for him. We dated off and on through high school and I was in love with him for the majority of it. I was so in love that there were times I let him treat me like shit, times I let him get away with things I should never have let him get away with. There were a lot of good times but there were also a lot of bad times. Eventually I was able to see that things that were happening were not okay and we broke up for good. He called my mom on his wedding day to tell her that he was still in love with me. But I have moved in and I don’t want him in my life in any way.

Day 20: Post about Three Celebrity crushes

  1. Dylan O’Brien; ever since I first saw him in Teen Wolf he has been a celebrity crush of mine. I have watched every single thing he has been in
  2. John Cusack; he is my all time favourite actor and one of my celebrity crushes. I think he is brilliant and has such talent. I have even been lucky enough to meet him
  3. Zac Efron; this crush didn’t start until later after his high school musical stuff. I mean look at him now, enough said

Talk Soon,

Lyndsay

30 Day Blogging Challenge: Day 17 and 18

Day 17: Post About your Zodiac sign and whether or not it suits you

So Libra is my zodiac and below is a picture of what that means. Some of it suites me and some of it doesn’t. I have another blog post planned where I will go more in depth to this, that will be coming after the challenge.

Day 18: Post 30 facts about yourself

  1. I am the oldest of three children
  2. I have a puppy named Logan
  3. Batman is my favourite superhero
  4. I enjoy bullet Journalling
  5. I am a Registered Early Childhood Educator
  6. I used to act when I was younger
  7. I really enjoy musicals
  8. I am a Girl Guide of Canada leader
  9. I have been to a few different places and New York City has been my favourite so far
  10. I have a total of 6 tattoos
  11. One place that I want to go is British Columbia
  12. I have been on a cruise and I loved it except I get sea sick
  13. I love doing escape rooms and I’m getting really good at them
  14. I don’t post on Facebook very much but I do check it at least once a day
  15. I have a YouTube channel that I started with a friend of mine
  16. One day I would like to be a mother
  17. I have anxiety so some things are difficult for me
  18. I have worked in more than one daycare and I love the one that I am in right now
  19. I love Harry Potter and have read every book at least 10 times each
  20. I hate shopping
  21. I love being able to paint, draw and colour
  22. I love driving and prefer to drive than be a passenger
  23. I am really close to my mom and spend time with her as much as possible
  24. I want to travel to England and have wanted to until I was a child
  25. Even though I live in Canada I hate snow
  26. I watch very random things
  27. I don’t like country music
  28. I don’t like confrontation but I am the first one to call something out if it is getting done wrong
  29. I am not a fan of carbonated beverages, in fact I would rather drink water than something else
  30. I find it really hard to talk about myself

Talk Soon,

Lyndzey

30 Day Blogging Challenge: Day 16

Something that you miss

Believe it or not I miss being in college. I miss waking up and getting ready to go learn something. I miss seeing my partner in crime everyday and meeting up before class with her. I miss hanging out between classes, trying to figure out what we are going to do when we have a few hours to kill. I miss learning something new. Sitting in a classroom while a teacher stands up front and teaches us something we are going to have to use in the future.

I miss how easy it all seemed to be back then. I didn’t have all the responsibility that I have now because my sole responsibility was getting an education. The world didn’t seem so hard, school was something I was good at. I miss staying up late to finish a project and not being exhausted the next day because I stayed up past nine. I miss the feeling of accomplishment when I finished that project in time to hand it in. School made me feel good about myself and that feeling is the thing I miss most about it.

Talk Soon,

Lyndzey